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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-10-06 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #4657 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4657 ⌋

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Re: Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2019-10-06 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Probably a mix.

You're used to one thing. Now you have another thing instead of the thing you're used to. It's unfamiliar, it's weird, it's scary, and even if you know it'll be better for you in the long run, there's an impulse to reject it all and go back to what you knew.

You say your family is dysfunctional. Do you feel like maybe you don't deserve the situation you have now? Because you do. You went for it and you got it. You're paying for it. It's yours. If it feels empty, you just need to fill it with something. It's your space and you get to express yourself in it.

Give it time. Growing pains are hell, but you can get through them.

Re: Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2019-10-06 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks. It's not that I don't feel I deserve it. My family was dysfunctional but loving. I'm very introverted and my family members are my only friends. I'm happy with that. There were just some differences that made it difficult to be around them sometimes.

I'm going to stay until the lease ends in six months. Not sure what I'll do after that though.