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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-11-01 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #4683 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4683 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-11-01 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I... dunno why this is something you "just had to come out and say it" about.

There will always be some creepy people in every fandom with every kink that can't - or don't - do fiction =/= reality. Was this not a given?

Where are you finding people that disagree with this?

(Anonymous) 2019-11-01 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
but most kinks aren't intrinsically and fundamentally morally horrific in reality so it's not really a great comparison

(Anonymous) 2019-11-01 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Isn't ravishment/rape the most common fantasy? I'd say it's comparable.

(Anonymous) 2019-11-01 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2019-11-01 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know what the most common fantasy is.

I don't totally agree with your comparison but the reasons involve a couple of points not explicitly raised in the secret. I think that it's relatively easy to understand what people who have rape fantasies are fantasizing about - what the content of those fantasies is - and how it differs from an actual act of rape and can be incorporated into consensual erotic play. I think it's a lot harder to understand that in this case. And one of the frequent defenses of underage smut is that "it's all fictional, it doesn't involve real kids". So it's not just a question of sexual acts, but also of fantasizing about real kids (as opposed to fictional kids) being wrong. And I think it's hard to believe that line actually exists in practice as much as some people insist it does.

I want to be clear that I specifically don't agree with OP's implication that everyone who's into these things feels this way.

OP

(Anonymous) 2019-11-01 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
“I want to be clear that I specifically don't agree with OP's implication that everyone who's into these things feels this way.”

That wasn’t what I was aiming for. I think creeps exist, and I think they need to be addressed when they pop up, but I don’t think they’re a majority.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2019-11-01 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry, that part's on me, I just misread the secret. I apologize.