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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-11-03 02:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #4685 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4685 ⌋

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Re: Unpopular non-fandom opinions

(Anonymous) 2019-11-04 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
ngl but I honestly think (as a morbidly obese person who is working on losing weight) that a lot of the people who say that mostly say it as a defensive reaction again people having been shitheads to them their whole life.

I've definitely used that line on my mom (who'd make pig noises at me if I ate one sandwich AND NOTHING ELSE a day while I was a teen) and it was less about really believing and and more about wanting her to back the fuck off).

To this day, my mom and I can't talk about my weight civilly because she can claim it's for my health all she wants but I know she just doesn't want a fat daughter.
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Re: Unpopular non-fandom opinions

[personal profile] philstar22 2019-11-04 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Yup. I agree. And, honestly, it took a while before I personally could even think about my own weight without it being a trigger for my mental health issues because of all the baggage from all the bullying and comments I'd received about it over the years. Even just thinking about my weight was enough to send me into a spiral of self hatred. It has only been recently that I've been able to start thinking about it in a more positive way as I'm learning to think of myself in a positive way (seeing a therapist, and we're working on self care).