[ SECRET POST #4687 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4687 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Need Advice (serious answers only please)

[(Anonymous)]

It's kind of weird that she keeps finding you. Do you have a wide social media presence? How locked down do you keep stuff? A few ideas:

* Maintain a separate e-mail address for your social media stuff. Make sure the username has no links to your real name or any other usernames you've used elsewhere. Just a bunch of random letters and numbers.

* Go through the security/privacy settings of all your social media accounts with a fine toothed comb. Opt out of your profile showing up in searches. Lock stuff to friends only or private. If you're on Facebook, create lists to keep your friends groups separate and ONLY POST TO LIMITED, SPECIFIC LISTS. Set your posts to exclude all her accounts and anyone linked to her. Set your privacy settings so that if people tag you, it doesn't simply show up on your timeline. Set your privacy settings so that only people on your friends list can message you privately. Post nothing publicly.

* Scale back on the information you share. A lot of people simply don't realize that they're sharing way too much personal info on their social media that makes them too easy to track down. Avoid selfies. Avoid discussing where you're going on vacation, what concerts you got tickets for, what bars and restaurants you're at/going to. Don't mention other people by name, especially not full names, so you can't be tracked via your relatives and acquaintances.

Lastly, if you haven't already done so, tell this person directly and firmly that you're not interested in communicating with her and not to contact you again. Don't sugarcoat it. Don't try to soften the blow or be "nice" about it. "I'm not interested in talking to you. Don't contact me again." THEN block. Don't repeat yourself, don't respond to any further communications or questions.