[ SECRET POST #4690 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4690 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

People are so weird with the idea of forgiveness. Some people think it's complete absolution and reconciliation even if the offense is repeated, while others take it to mean letting go in the mind. I think it's all overrated, but I also think people should do what works best for them. People mean well, but don't realize what a selfish thing it is to request that an abused person forgive the abuser in their life.

[(Anonymous)]

I just wish forgiveness wasn't so universally considered the "healthy" and "right" way to deal with trauma by a lot of society.

[(Anonymous)]

IA. I feel like it's actually the wrong way to go, that it inherently involves invalidating oneself. Though if it helps some people cope, then I'm not going to protest them doing so. Just as long as they don't protest me condemning my abusers, because that's what helps me deal with it.