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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-11-08 05:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #4690 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4690 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-11-09 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
OP: ugh I hate when people say that kind of thing. "But he's family!" Yeah, so? Wherever this ingrained idea that (blood) family is the most important thing ever came from, it really produced a lot of ignorantly insensitive people who react to "my parents abuse me" to "but they're still your family". Not to mention media where that seems to be the moral.

I'm all for not forgiving, and I even kind of don't get it when people do forgive, though in the end I support people doing what's best for themselves, even if I don't think it's right; it's not my life, anyway.

That said, I would mourn my dad (and my mom) if they died not because I love them, but because I feel a deep, strong emotional attachment to them that comes from growing up with them as my rock, like most parents are to their children when they're young. Not the most stable or comfortable of rocks, but I had no other perspective. They do think they love me, whether one could say they really do or not, and that makes it hard for my overly sympathetic side as well.