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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-11-28 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #4710 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4710 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-11-29 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding this.

Also, I think people would criticize FSOG a hell of a lot less if it ever acknowledged that what it depicted was BDSM done very, very wrong. Because even though BDSM seems practically vanilla in fandom circles, IRL there are still a lot of people who don't know much about it. So when something like FSOG depicts it so, so inaccurately and abusively, a lot of people out there end up thinking that's what BDSM is like/about. And I can definitely see how that would piss off people who are actually in the lifestyle or whatever.

(Anonymous) 2019-11-29 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
My problem with it is people who think FSOG is sexy doing BDSM in an unsafe way if they try it out, or not being able to determine if someone is actually being abusive.

Too many stories I've heard about guys choking women out WITHOUT ASKING IF THEY LIKE THAT, I'm afraid. Though that's probably mostly caused by exposure to porn and not a series of novels.