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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-12-05 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #4717 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4717 ⌋

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[Anne with an E]


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[For All Mankind]


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[Supergirl/Will and Grace]


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[The Watch, Terry Pratchett]


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[The Great British Bake Off series 5]


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[Mystery Science Theater 3000]











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[personal profile] rivulet027 2019-12-06 08:54 am (UTC)(link)
The thing I don't like about it is that it always comes later in the relationship after the couple clearly loves one another and then somehow that conversation comes up, when realistically this is a conversation that I think most people tend to have in the early stages of a relationship.
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[personal profile] osidiano 2019-12-06 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Same! I couldn't believe that Sanvers had never talked about kids until they were literally finalizing the plans for their wedding. My spouse and I talked about whether or not we wanted kids on the third date<\i> before we'd even told each other our last names<\i>, and then talked over options (IVF/Surrogacy? Would we stay together if we were incapable of having kids (spouse had already gone through radiation while beating cancer, so it was a concern)? Would we adopt?).

(Anonymous) 2019-12-06 06:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I can buy it when a couple gets together when they are very young and never had a serious conversation about kids in the early stages of the relationship because it started casual and neither of them had really thought about whether they truly want kids, anyway, since having kids feels like a thing in the far distant future. Once they get a bit older and that possible future gets less distant they might think about it and realize they have incomparable goals and should break up.

If a couple is not super young when they get together, then yes, they really, really should have discussed this early on. It's ridiculous and defies the suspension of disbelief when they don't. (People can still change their mind, but that's a different thing.)
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[personal profile] cloudtrader 2019-12-07 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly! Like, I've seen it on dating profiles!