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⌈ Secret Post #4719 ⌋

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Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[dani_phantasma]

Without Mom, Christmas feels like just another thing to do because 'idk might as well'. She made Christmas magical and special. It truly made her happy to see us open gifts. It meant so much to her and us. Now it's just at a reminder that she's gone.

And it kills me

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[(Anonymous)]

<3

I'm so sorry.

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[dani_phantasma]

Thank you.

<3

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[(Anonymous)]

I'm so sorry, Dani. I lost a parent recently too, and while we at least had a few months between their passing and the holidays, it still felt like more of an empty gesture. I don't know if this is possible, but please give yourself permission to sit it out if you're not feeling it. You do not have to live up to the occasion and pretend like everything is like it was. Scaling back and going for comfort and solace might help. Please accept my condolences.

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[dani_phantasma]

Thank you very much.

I imagine we can't really pretend like it's the same but I guess we're trying to do our best in her memory and I feel like I can at least try to do that.

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry for your loss. <3

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[dani_phantasma]

Thank you very much <3

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[(Anonymous)]

You don’t have to apologize for grief.

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[greghousesgf]

I'm sorry, that must hurt so much.

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[dani_phantasma]

It does honestly. Constantly feeling like something's missing

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry for your loss. My mum loved christmas too, it was a month long decorating, baking, wrapping, singing season. The first one without her was actually a big mess because she was the one keeping my argumentative family in line and it got nasty real quick without her there. I don't celebrate the day with family anymore, but I try to catch up with some people one on one and I send gifts for the kids.

However you decide to celebrate or not celebrate christmas now is up to you, and there's no wrong way. You don't have to figure it out this year. Just be kind to yourself.

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[dani_phantasma]

I will do my best. Thank you

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[tabaqui]

*hugs*
I'm so sorry.

Re: Forgive me for another grief vent, Discord's fucked up

[dani_phantasma]

*hugs back*
Thank you