[ SECRET POST #4719 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4719 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Good point. I think the whole "ecstatic and instantly in love" scenario is something that's wrongly treated as normalm universal experience to the point where people who don't feel that way worry that they're broken, or a bad parent. I mean jesus, if you think about it being absolutely terrified is a very logical, reasonable reaction to creating a new life.

[(Anonymous)]

SA. Indeed. My sister loves her kids (I know she does, I see it with my own eyes) and says she did feel something like a rush when she (eventually) was able to hold them after birth. But she ended up with sepsis after her eldest and nearly died in the process of giving birth to her second (and he would've died too, it was really close to the wire in fact) so she *still* doesn't see birth as this instant "everything is wonderful" thing as she was still fighting for her life both times.

I know fanfic is wish fulfilment and not everyone wants the realities of life but sometimes it would be nice to see a general acknowledgement, even in fiction, that childbirth can be a bit shit even when it turns out alright in the end.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh my goodness, I'm sorry she had such an awful time. Childbirth really is still pretty dangerous, even in this day and age. :(