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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-12-29 02:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #4741 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4741 ⌋

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Re: How is everyone doing?

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Meh. My parents had guests over yesterday and my dad got very drunk again and then threw a tantrum when my mother told him "please don't try and put stuff in the dishwasher, you can't even stand straight and we're running low on those plates. Just go to bed." He started shouting and accused her of being drunk herself (she wasn't) and then went to bed under protest.

I met him while going upstairs to help my mom clean up- he was barely managing to climb down the stairs so I said something along the lines of "wow you're pretty drunk" which made him flip. He insisted he wasn't drunk and then ended on "Oh hey maybe I'll just die during my operation next week then you're all rid of me and you can be happy". And I'm still so fucking pissed about it - like what the FUCK.

Anyway, my mom and I basically didn't talk to him at all today and neither did he - he's hungover (serves him right) and feeling all self righteous and he's throwing a huge ass pity party for himself for being such a poor oppressed person. And it's fucking awkward because his brother is here (he keeps inviting himself over for three weeks over Christmas and New Year which is another annoyance in itself) so all you hear during meals is the disgusting noisy chewing of my uncle among the stony silence.

And al I wanted to do was tell him how fucking disgusting it is that he's actually insinuating that I'd be happy if he died just because I dared mention that he's drunk. But I chose not to because I had no energy for another fight considering he is convinced he's in the right.

Sorry for the long rant.

Re: How is everyone doing?

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, anon. It sounds like your Dad has some serious issues with alcohol consumption, though I'm sure he wouldn't react well to being told this.

Re: How is everyone doing?

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks.At least he doesn't drink and drive.
Yeah. He doesn't get this drunk very often- usually during parties and events, rarely if ever if it's just any normal day. But when he does, it's pretty bad. At least he doesn't drink and drive.

Re: How is everyone doing?

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad for your sake he doesn't do this often, but it sounds like you'd all be better off if he didn't do it at all.

Re: How is everyone doing?

(Anonymous) 2019-12-30 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I talked to him today and he apparently doesn't really remember saying what he did and at least he had the decency to be genuinely appalled at himself for doing it and he apologised. He also said he will try to not drink that much in the future. He usually does try but drifts back eventually but at least he knows he did something wrong.
Thanks for your compassion.