[ SECRET POST #4759 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4759 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Mandalorian]



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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

So people don't say excluding transwomen from you're dating pool makes you a terf or gays and lesbians should try to get over their aversion to vagina and penises? You people are straight up gaslighting us now.

[(Anonymous)]

The tragedy of the internet is that any opinion, no matter how ill-conceived or marginal, is easily available.

[(Anonymous)]

Plus fucking one.

[(Anonymous)]

Okay, so like... maybe you can explain this to me, because I'm a lesbian that 100% has transwomen in my dating pool and I literally don't understand why that isn't the most common. Is it really so ubiquitous that people have a genuine aversion to the opposite genitals? Most of my gay male friends joke about it, sure, but they're not serious for the most part, and I just... I don't get it? What I'm attracted to is femininity, and I suppose I just don't think of genitals as inherently masculine or feminine. I don't know. Are people really that put-off? I'm not trying to be an asshole, I swear, I just really, really don't get it.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes. A lot of lesbians don't want to date AMABs whether they have a dick, a girldick or an inverted dick.

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT and I’m a cis woman, but from what I understand, well done bottom surgery on a trans woman is gonna leave them with, pretty much, a vagina (and something like a clit? That, I don’t remember ever learning) It’s not gonna lubricate itself, but the story my prof told was of a woman going to the doctor and the doc asking who’d done such a good job on her hysterectomy, since there was no sign she’d ever had a uterus/ovaries. Because she was a post-op transwoman.

I’m not a lesbian, but maybe I’m missing something? I can understand lesbians not being attracted to cis-man or trans-woman dick, but how would you tell/why would you care if your partner was a trans woman whose vagina was a late upgrade?

Trans men get, er, the short end of the stick because it’s way harder (sorry!) to make a dick that looks/functions like a cis dude’s, and I could see that being an issue for them and/or their partners.

[(Anonymous)]

But not every lesbian. It's not the sweeping statement you think it is.

[(Anonymous)]

I'd be curious to see how a large group of people would answer this. Personally, as a straight cis woman, the idea of having a sexual partner with a vagina lacks appeal for me. It's not a squick, and maybe I could get into it if I was in love with their personality - never say never and all that. But if I have the option to select for men with dicks, I'm going to do that.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes. Not everyone, obviously, but yes there are genuinely gay people who are anywhere from not attracted to to actively repulsed by the opposite genitalia. I'm one of them - I wouldn't run screaming from a dick, but they do absolutely nothing for me, and I want to do absolutely nothing to them.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm bisexual. I prefer women and my dating history has been almost exclusively women, but I've had a few guys here and there as sexual partners and am currently dating one and the sex is great. In a lot of ways, because I've had sex with a number of people from both genders, I really don't feel like it "matters". At the end of the day, the genitals stopped really making a difference to me, the user manual is a little difference but the parts feel more or less the same under a different brand. I'm really more interested in the person. (Not necessarily personality, though I wish I could claim that, but the overall aesthetic and beauty plus personality and sexual chemistry.) Men, women, the difference feels small to me.

Now that all being said... I've never experienced sexual attraction to a trans person. I'm not opposed in theory, but it's just how it is. I perfectly believe that in the right scenario with the right person it could happen. But that might be more a matter of principle than my body's sexual orientation because so far, it just hasn't happened.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm female, bisexual, and I prefer men, and I find a lot of trans people of any gender really hot.

I think it's the confidence it takes to do something as hard as transitioning. If the person is outwardly confident and has swagger outside of that too, oooooweeeee! But I also find androgyny very sexy.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes. I'm a straight woman and vaginas don't do it for me. I know, I've experimented. It doesn't matter whether that vagina belongs to a woman or a man, I have zero sexual interest in vaginas, period. I wouldn't call it an aversion, it's just that I have no interest in doing anything sexual with someone with a vagina because that particular genital configuration doesn't turn me on at all. I need a dick in my sex to be interested.

[(Anonymous)]

You know strap-one exist, right? Like dicks can be had for pennies.

[philstar22]

No, they don't. Attraction is subjective and personal. People only say that transwomen are women and that saying otherwise makes you a transphobe. Not being personally attracted to them is not a problem. Saying that no lesbian could every be attracted to any transwoman would be transphobic. Saying that people attracted to transwomen aren't people being attracted to women would be transphobic. Not being personally attracted to them is not transphobic.

[(Anonymous)]

+1

[(Anonymous)]

Being attracted exclusively to one sex, we're not talking about gender, isn't subjective, it's an orientation. People don't wake up one day and think "I'll do cock because the person attached to it says they're a woman." This shit reminds me of when people said being gay was just a choice and called it a sexual preference.

[philstar22]

Sex and gender aren't tied together the same way for all people. Just as trans people exist, so too do people exist who are attracted to trans people who are women but have cocks or who are men but have vaginas. Not everyone has the same rigid categories of sex and gender when it comes to attraction any more than everyone does when it comes to identity. I happen to be someone who does for the most part. I'm bisexual, but I generally have different types for men and for women. But it isn't that hard to recognize that not everyone is me and that attraction doesn't work the same for everyone.

[(Anonymous)]

+1000000

[(Anonymous)]

You're right, absolutely no one thinks like that. Real actual human beings are more like "oh hey I really like this woman and want to date her even though there are some things i'll need to get used to"

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you! I'm not attracted to transsexuals and I don't see why this is a problem. I'm supposed to take it in stride when no one's attracted to me for whatever reason and transsexuals need to do the same. It's not phobic at all. Unfortunately, they are in a minority and they must realize that.

[philstar22]

What? You missed the point. Most trans people very much recognize that. Some people are attracted to trans people, some people aren't. Trans people for the most part, in my experience, only have a problem with people who say that noone could be attracted to a trans person. They don't have a problem with individual people not being personally attracted to them.

[(Anonymous)]

You have such a condescending tone. "They are in a minority and they must realise that." Are you stupid? Do you think trans people aren't bitchslapped by that every single day? Trans people don't feel entitled to people's attraction. You're not a bigot if you happen to not be attracted to transgender people. You're a bigot if you act like nobody could possibly be attracted to a trans person, or that people who are are less valid in whatever their sexuality happens to be, implying trans people aren't what they say.

[(Anonymous)]

It's not a problem if you personally don't want to. Nobody cares about your personal preference. The phobia is when it's societal.

[(Anonymous)]

Your twitter circle must be exhausting.

[(Anonymous)]

The people who say that can fuck off, yeah, but don't project that onto all trans people. Or is it fine to hate all straight people because a minority of them think gay people just haven't found the right (opposite sex) yet and need some straight sex? It's the same thing.