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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-01-16 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #4759 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4759 ⌋

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[The Mandalorian]



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[linked for nudity at OP's request]


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(Anonymous) 2020-01-17 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
This is generally how I feel. I just can't wrap my head around dysphoria because I don't know what it's like to have it. I grew up as a tomboy and felt very strongly about equality in the sense that the only difference between male and female was their shape, that what you do or how you live has no baring on who you are. So the whole idea about identifying as a certain gender just doesn't make sense to me because I don't know what people mean when they say they identify as a man, woman, or neither. I don't have a problem with how people live their life or doing what makes them happy, I'm glad people can beat their dysphoria and live their best life without letting it weigh them down. I just wish I could understand it better, but I'm not sure how to, y'know.

I am glad you phrased this as a personal experience, and I'm glad you're living a life you love. I just hope you don't let your personal experience overshadow the troubles other people are facing in the now. (I only mention this because I've seen someone use these statistics in this way in the past) Even if someone does grow out of their dysphoria, that doesn't mean it wasn't hard to live through when they were going through it.