[ SECRET POST #4780 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4780 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

I definitely get this and tend to feel the same.

Sexism is an ever-present issue for me when it’s a jerk guy/woman pairing. Even when the guy himself isn’t all that sexist, there’s inherent sexism in the fact that he can be the way he is, and do the shit he does, and say the shit he says, and treat people (including her) the way he does, and get away with it all. And meanwhile she’s almost always tasked with being the straight man and the professional and the responsible one who cares about the rules for both of them.

Like, that same dynamic isn’t really okay when it’s M/M, but it doesn’t feel nearly as tied into systemic bullshit as it does when it’s M/F.

Though for the record, I do ship some het ships like this anyway, despite my problems with them. I can just handle far more extreme versions when it’s M/M. Like, Mulder/Scully very much has elements of this and they’re a huge OTP for me. But I don’t think I would’ve been able to enjoy Johnlock (BBC version) if John had been female.

[(Anonymous)]

I very much enjoyed Joan and Sherlock's friendship in Elementary and I know some people shipped it, but while this Sherlock was obnoxious (not sure you can have a Sherlock Holmes that isn't), he also had this streak of sweetness that tempered it somewhat.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't ship it, but I very much appreciate that Sherlock's obnoxiousness is tempered by the fact that he's very obviously trying to better himself and that he takes correction graciously and respectfully, as you would expect an intelligent, compassionate person who cares about his partner to do, but almost never see in mainstream media.

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AYRT - Yeah, I definitely think Elementary is a completely different animal. I only watched a bit of it and it was never really my thing, but he seemed like he was a much more benign form of "absolute nightmare" than BBC's Sherlock. And Joan seemed a lot healthier within herself, too, even compared to early seasons John. So their relationship ultimately felt fairly healthy and constructive.

As far as chaotic/obnoxious man with stable, responsible woman pairings go, it was pretty mild and positive.

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed to all of this.