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fandomsecrets2020-02-28 05:45 pm
[ SECRET POST #4802 ]
⌈ Secret Post #4802 ⌋
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[The Decemberists]
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[Love Actually (the Chinese romantic comedy, not the British one!)]
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07. [SPOILERS for Knives Out]

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Re: Reposted from the secret down below because I screwed up
(Anonymous) 2020-03-01 01:08 am (UTC)(link)It might sound weird, but I think it's cool you've been able to find a kinky outlet to work through some of the body issues you've experienced. I assume being able to vicariously experience loss of bodily control in a positive/safe setting through pregnancy fic is probably cathartic as well as sexy for you.
I have no idea why I'm in to what I'm into, but I do suspect that my mum being quite nasty about my weight (and other people's) when I was young contributed - as someone who likes weight gain on other people, not myself, it feels like it's exciting partly because it's this taboo thing I'm not supposed to like, and partly because it feels like having control over something that has caused my a lot of mental anguish.
With weight gain fic a lot of the loss of control is pretty analogous to erotica in general - the person knows what they're doing is 'wrong' but doesn't want to stop themselves because it feels so 'right'. And the feeder/feeder dynamic is pretty standard sub/dom control stuff, just with a different focus. Being turned on by humiliation is a fairly common thing in the genre as well - which I think all hails back to some kind of complex psychological gymnastics allowing people to turn something they perceive, or believe is perceived as negative into something positive.
In conclusion, brains are weird things, lol.