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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-03-25 07:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #4828 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4828 ⌋

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[personal profile] wannabe_influential 2020-03-26 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I feel like there are limits to what you should put up with to be in a relationship

Like, if we live hours apart, our families/friends hate each other, we have weird work/school hours, and our personalities and values are so different that we're constantly arguing, at a certain point it would just be less of a hassle to break up

(Anonymous) 2020-03-26 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
If the love between the characters seems genuine and deep-seated then I’ll always be rooting for it, and it’ll always seem worth the fight to me. But if the narrative hasn’t thoroughly convinced me that they have a rich relationship and a deep-seated love, then I’ll definitely sometimes feel like, “Can we just not, with this story line, please?”

(Anonymous) 2020-03-26 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
it depends on the characters/situation for me, and how invested i am, bc if i actually CARE i'm gonna be 100% into the stupid drama and loving it.

(Anonymous) 2020-03-26 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Ditto
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[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2020-03-26 08:07 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah Piper and Leo
I feel the same if the characters are always arguing with their partner, but not if the people find comfort in their person more than they argue

(Anonymous) 2020-03-26 10:09 am (UTC)(link)
Dude, you gotta be more specific. 'Cause at face value, conflict/distress/whatever you imagine a difficult situation might be, is simply that of a bland and basic romance, or even better- normal human fucking nature. (emphasis on the normal)

Not even in your dreams do people live in perfect understanding. People aren't pets, they have opinions and desires all their own. Interests that people need to sort through as they discover who they are, and what they want in and from their SO. No individual is alike, and no matter how well two individuals match together, nothing is perfect.

This is grade school reading, really. And like, I get what you mean, or what you should mean, making this secret. That when the only thing two people can do to each other is scream and shout, make excuses for themselves just to hurt on or the other, then yeah, I get it.
Just the difficulties aren't always bad, and people can actually learn through dialog and mistake,