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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-04-20 07:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #4854 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4854 ⌋

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[Joe Dirt]


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[Kael'thas Sunstrider, World of Warcraft Shadowlands expansion]


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[Father Brown Mysteries]


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[Xena: Warrior Princess]


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[The Untamed]


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[BAND-MAID]


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[Tiger King]


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(Anonymous) 2020-04-21 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
I'm aro, disabled, not well-off, and 35. I've been clear with the idea that I never want to be pregnant, never want to raised kids, since roughly puberty, and that I'd better stay single since early adulthood.
And the freaking social worker in charge of helping autistic adults getting a job in the "normal" world... flat-out told me that I should have kids "it'll help me sort out my life"
I'm at a loss for words.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-21 07:33 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Wow, fuck them.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-21 07:46 am (UTC)(link)
I can't tell if this is in response to my post or just in addition to it. But wow, that's really fucked up. One has to wonder if that woman has kids herself, if she actually believes that. Or has ever spent more then ten minutes around a kid, for that matter. Like, what does she think they are, Tamagotchis? O_o

(Anonymous) 2020-04-21 02:10 pm (UTC)(link)
da

Right? Does she not think kids should have parents who have their shit together (or at least are trying) AND actually want to raise a kid?

Not sure if the lady is a parent, but I wish people would quit criticizing or pressuring others into decisions because they can't function unless they get validation about their own.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-22 09:10 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT I *think* that she's under the delusion that what my executive dysfunction prevents me from doing for myself, I'll pull myself by the bootstraps and force myself to do fOR mY BaBYYY.
To which I say: NO.
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[personal profile] resnullius_bells 2020-04-21 11:35 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding the anon above: fuck them. WTF.

And the whole "a kid will help you sort out your life"? I think people should go into having children thinking that they want to take care of another human being, not expecting THEM to fix their lives FFS.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-21 04:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Another DA

Precisely.

Infants and children aren't shrinks.
They won't cure you of your zits.
They can't save any relationships you happen to be in.
They can't get rid of crappy weather.
They aren't good luck charms.

They just simply happen to be children, that's all.