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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-04-21 05:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #4855 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4855 ⌋

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Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2020-04-22 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
IDK, I'd say the red flag there is "fantasizes about raping someone", not "man". There are definitely women who fantasize about being the rapist, and there are definitely men who fantasize about being the victim.

(And there are people who get off on fictional depictions of rape that don't involve them in any respect, which is probably the most common use of 'rape kink' in a fandom context, tbh.)

Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2020-04-22 11:33 am (UTC)(link)
+0.5 For me, it's a combination of "fantasizes about raping someone" and "does not respect other people's boundaries."

In fact, "does not respect other people's boundaries" is a much bigger red flag for me. Someone who has fantasies about raping someone might ot might not act one them irl, someone who doesn't respect other people's boundaries already is acting on their fantasies in the real world.