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⌈ Secret Post #4855 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

To me there's a big difference between a woman telling me she fantasizes about being raped and a man telling me he fantasizes about raping someone... In a perfect world I wouldn't care but I just don't trust most men enough to be 100% chill about it :/
"Make sure i am never left alone with a woman" is a bit much though.

Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

I think there's varying types of rape kink, and it's not fair to assume every man with a rape kink is fantasizing about raping fictional women. Like there's fantasizing about raping a fictional character, fantasizing about being raped by a fictional character, and - this last one seems vastly the most common in my experience - people who find "characters being raped by other characters" a turnon, and don't put themselves personally in either role

Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT - I agree with this. Personally, if guy fantasizes about raping a fictional character, I wouldn't want to be friends with him or be alone with him. Maybe it means nothing. Maybe it stops with fictional characters. But rape is a pretty rampant problem in the real world and I'm not going to take a chance with a dude who fantasizes about raping, even if it is just a fictional character.

However, if someone merely finds "character being raped by character" a turnon, and doesn't put themself in either role, I feel a lot more chill about that.

Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

I'm honestly not sure how I feel. Part of me feels like if some people fantasize about being raped as a submissive fantasy, but not actually want to be raped, then why can't others fantasize about raping as a dominant fantasy but not actually want to rape. On the other hand, given the sexism of our culture and media, part of me is uncomfortable because it would be easy for that type of fantasy to go hand in hand with sexism and real life not respecting women's boundaries. But then back on the other hand, fantasy doesn't have to have real life implications, and when it doesn't I do believe in fantasy being fantasy and YKINMKATO.

So I don't know.

Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, this is one instance in which I'm perfectly comfortable being 100% completely sexist, I admit it. It's not particularly nice or even very fair of me but I would absolutely not trust a man that admitted that he had a rape fantasy. I'm sorry.

Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

IDK, I'd say the red flag there is "fantasizes about raping someone", not "man". There are definitely women who fantasize about being the rapist, and there are definitely men who fantasize about being the victim.

(And there are people who get off on fictional depictions of rape that don't involve them in any respect, which is probably the most common use of 'rape kink' in a fandom context, tbh.)

Re: Can I just check I am still on the same internet? TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

+0.5 For me, it's a combination of "fantasizes about raping someone" and "does not respect other people's boundaries."

In fact, "does not respect other people's boundaries" is a much bigger red flag for me. Someone who has fantasies about raping someone might ot might not act one them irl, someone who doesn't respect other people's boundaries already is acting on their fantasies in the real world.