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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-04-27 05:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #4861 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4861 ⌋

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I think because grief is hard to write.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-27 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
It is hard to sustain, writing-wise - it can be a drain to write, along with being a drain for the audience to watch and so, after a while, the writer wants to move on and they make the character move on.

Sort of related, I get annoyed when media brings up the five stages of grief for someone who has lost a loved one, since that model was developed specifically from studying how terminally-ill patients deal with their own impending death. Yes, someone grieving might experience any or all of them, but not necessarily, plus a whole lot more, like what is shown in your secret. And it will also depend on the relationship, how and when the death occurred, and the person grieving.

Re: I think because grief is hard to write.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-28 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
+1 I agree with all of this, anon!

Re: I think because grief is hard to write.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-28 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. Kubler Ross is not infallible.