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fandomsecrets2020-04-28 06:25 pm
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(Anonymous) 2020-04-29 12:32 am (UTC)(link)It doesn't imply bigotry doesn't exist, but it DOES imply that the speaker is so in their bubble as to be unaware of it, which... like, I can definitely laugh (have to, some days) at people who mean well but have their heads up their ass. But, while there are examples I laugh at, there are also times when it really is just, yeah, flinching from something that then doesn't happen.
So I really don't blame other marginalized people-- especially those whose struggles I don't share and can't ever fully know-- for hating this type of humor. When it doesn't land, it's Bad, and we deal with enough out in the real world. But I don't judge people for laughing at it, either. Sometimes I don't and sometimes I do.
(No idea how much of the difference is my mood when I hear an example vs how much is whether the writer of the joke is themselves marginalized or not and I am responding to something different in the tone)