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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-04-30 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #4864 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4864 ⌋

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[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-04-30 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Uh....fictional men/= real men, maybe? 'Cause mostly we *fix fictional men* in our fic to make them a whole hell of a lot less fucking annoying.
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[personal profile] feotakahari 2020-05-01 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
Isn’t that the parallel OP is stating, though? Incels also think their waifus lack the flaws of the real thing.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-01 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, there's a difference between "fixing" things like casual misogyny or views on gender and what incels do.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-01 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think either "incels" with waifus or their female equivalent are wrong in that sense though. If someone has a waifu or husbando because no real person is good enough and they're not out trying to date those real people who will only disappoint them, it's a win-win for everyone. Not everyone is meant to have an SO. That's not a flaw on their part.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-05-01 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
......i dunno? The point, i guess, is that most people in fanfiction remove the flaws, which is why they *actually like them*.

It seems like this person is saying (to me) that 'crappy men in real life get bitched about but crappy fictional men get loved on', which...sure, to an extent. But a lot of the fictional men are 'fixed' or just never as crappy to begin with, which is why people tend to like them more than a lot of 'real' men.

One of us is missing something or i'm totally confused.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-01 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
And then there are people like me who love crappy men *in fiction* and keep them crappy when we write them because being crappy is okay and can be interesting when you're not a real person who I, in real life, have to interact with.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-05-01 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, exactly.
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[personal profile] feotakahari 2020-05-01 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
I interpreted as “stop acting like real-life men are all shit.” It’s an attitude I see sometimes from bisexuals who date men—they end up ranting about bisexuals who don’t date men, who expect them to agree that men are all bad.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-05-01 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Okay.