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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-05-16 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #4880 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4880 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread.

[personal profile] venusundae 2020-05-17 07:21 am (UTC)(link)
that's a good point. i think he tries. and i think he cares. but he's just so not self aware that it alienates a lot of people around him and i end up forgive him for the same things over and over all the time. i think i just gotta work on better boundaries w him really.

thank you <3 i appreciate that

Re: Vent thread.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-17 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I definitely had to readjust my sharing level with a friend who was flippant as fuck about things that were really bothering me. I just kind of accepted, "okay, this is who they are and I just need to share my deep hurts with somebody who won't say I just need to get over it and I'll be fine." I was sad for a while but it wasn't my job to change them. I still talk to them every now and then but my expectations are different.