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⌈ Secret Post #4880 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Vent thread.

[(Anonymous)]

I think if someone can't reciprocate empathy, or pretends suffering is a competition, maybe they aren't much of a friend.

I get feeling like crap because extrovert having difficulty adjusting, but ffs. I would think other extroverts would understand that. Maybe he should hit up one of them or something, since he badly wants his social life back.

Anyway, sorry your routines were also disrupted. People thrive when conditions are ideal; it's so easy to regress when those are taken away. We're in such weird times, all of us. I hope you don't beat yourself up too much, because Covid is the one screwing everything up. But I also hope it gets better for you.

Re: Vent thread.

[venusundae]

that's a good point. i think he tries. and i think he cares. but he's just so not self aware that it alienates a lot of people around him and i end up forgive him for the same things over and over all the time. i think i just gotta work on better boundaries w him really.

thank you <3 i appreciate that

Re: Vent thread.

[(Anonymous)]

I definitely had to readjust my sharing level with a friend who was flippant as fuck about things that were really bothering me. I just kind of accepted, "okay, this is who they are and I just need to share my deep hurts with somebody who won't say I just need to get over it and I'll be fine." I was sad for a while but it wasn't my job to change them. I still talk to them every now and then but my expectations are different.