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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-05-16 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #4880 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4880 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-17 05:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Never set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.

She'll get help when she no longer has you to suck the life out of. Or she won't. Either way, you can get your life back.

Please don't trap yourself into a tight corner you can't escape from just because she's family. Family is there for each other. EACH OTHER. It's not one-sided. What is she doing for you, other than helping you to be a martyr? If she's a full-grown, functioning adult that doesn't need hospitalization, then stop enabling her. She doesn't seem to be concerned with how her actions affect you anyway. Let your parents deal with her. Let her experience the consequences of her own actions. If you really believe she's going to kill herself, then you tell your parents, or you call the cops if she's threatening it.

I am not suggesting being mean or spiteful (even though you or she might see it that way), but to take off the hero-colored glasses and put more value in your own survival.

sa

(Anonymous) 2020-05-17 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I forgot to say that even with the mentally ill, it's their responsibility to manage their illness, or at least help to manage their illness. That includes taking meds to function better.

If you had the flu (or let's just say the coronavirus), it's your responsibility to rest up, eat healthy, and take your medication and do other things to speed up the healing process. If it gets worse, you go to the hospital. You don't run around in public, practicing your vices and making your health worse, or getting others sick, or hacking on the one person who'll put up with your germs.