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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-05-18 07:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #4882 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4882 ⌋

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Re: What's the deal with Age Play?

(Anonymous) 2020-05-19 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
It's not my kink, but as I understand it, it's about taking care of someone/getting taken care of, even in non-con situations. By giving in to the forced age play, you're trusting the other to see you at your most vulnerable, or so it's seen from the abuser's POV.

I once discussed this with someone who wrote a lot of Age Play fics, and apparently this was their way of dealing with losing a child. Another said they were dealing with childhood abuse trauma.

Often these fics ends with mindbreak, the victim losing their previous identity and as a reward get to be "safe".

Re: What's the deal with Age Play?

(Anonymous) 2020-05-19 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt
Yeah, I noticed the changing their personality in the non con Age Play. I've not thought about them gaining a reward for that, huh.

I wonder why Age Play have charaters roleplay as todlers or younger to deal with the trauma, as most of us don't remember these times.

So it's a bit similar to dom/sub in that it's about the care.

Re: What's the deal with Age Play?

(Anonymous) 2020-05-19 01:58 am (UTC)(link)

I wonder why Age Play have charaters roleplay as todlers or younger to deal with the trauma, as most of us don't remember these times.

It's precisely because you can't remember anything from that time. It's about still being innocent no matter what the abuser puts you through. Whatever happens isn't the victim's fault, they don't have a reason to hate themselves because there's nothing they can do.
Often you hear about abuse victims hating themselves, because they feel like they could've done something (even as kids) to prevent bad stuff from happening. When you're physically restricted, not allowed to make any decisions, you're removed from all responsibility.

Re: What's the deal with Age Play?

(Anonymous) 2020-05-19 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt
This is so sad.
There's definitely something about having no obligations or responsibilities, not being able to act.