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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-05-20 05:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #4884 ]


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(Anonymous) 2020-05-20 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
You would think that people who really prioritize height differences in sexual dynamics would check first before committing to a particular arrangement. If you feel the characters should do things a certain way only to find out that the heights don't work out the way you would have felt was "proper," then take that as a sign that height doesn't need to be an important factor in these things.

(If it's a situation where you don't know the character's relative heights - say, it's a book that doesn't describe their heights - I see nothing wrong with making things up. If a later installment describes their heights, then I can forgive people sticking with what they had made up. It can be hard to adjust how you see a character in your mind's eye after getting used to seeing them a certain way.)

(Anonymous) 2020-05-21 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
You would think that people who really prioritize height differences in sexual dynamics would check first before committing to a particular arrangement. If you feel the characters should do things a certain way only to find out that the heights don't work out the way you would have felt was "proper," then take that as a sign

This is logical, but I think you're coming at it from a whole different angle than they are.

I think most people who change the heights of the characters pick which character the want to bottom/top based on what the character's like, what the pairing dynamic is, and also (for some people) which character they personally identify with more.

Then, once they've picked their preferred top/bottom dynamic, they change the heights because for them it just makes things hotter. They're not doing it because they think the bottom has to be petite. They're doing it because they want the bottom to be petite, because it's hotter to them if he is.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-21 02:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, size difference is my thing with the bottom particularly being the smaller one. Some people just have a thing for it and as someone who also ships M/F and F/F it has nothing to do with the genders or anything. It's just...a small person being overwhelmed by the bigger person is hot. Sue me.