[ SECRET POST #4884 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4884 ⌋

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Comments

[chamonix]

Yeah, it feels like it's manipulatively shoehorning gender normative roles into places that should be free of them by definition. It's 2020 and we can't have a sexual receiver who isn't coded as the 'woman'? Really?

[(Anonymous)]

I lean feminine and a bottom. But a lot of this "bottom is a personality type" stuff just repeats the same sterotypes that I've experienced through harassment and abuse. A lot of time I just don't have the energy to figure out the fine line between respectfully kinky and abusive anti-femininity that doesn't respect my personal boundaries.

[(Anonymous)]

That's a really good way of wording it and as "freeing" as people talk about erotica in fandom being it's obvious a lot of writers have hang ups and baggage they don't or won't analyze and everyone else just has to deal with it.

It's one thing to have a bottom who is smaller or perhaps even the more feminine.

It's another when they're basically the crying, helpless uke ripped from a trashy 90s BL and supplanted into fanfic who seems to be there more for the top's enjoyment than their own and the writer not being self-aware (or purposefully choosing not to be aware) about it.

[chamonix]

I'm sorry you had to go through that <3