[ SECRET POST #4894 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4894 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[What We Do in the Shadows]


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03.
[sarazanmai]


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[image is a Dark-Eyed Junco (bird species)]


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05.
[star wars]


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06.
[Hairspray Live!]


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07.
[homestuck 2]


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08.
[ff7]


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09.
[Doctor Dolittle]


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10.
[great british sewing bee]


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11.
["La Lisiada" scene from Maria la del Barrio]


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12.
[Sailor Moon]









Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

"Lists that Jade had a wildly neglectful and fucked-up childhood and no good parental role models every" > "You'd think Jade would be the best mom ever"

...uh, no, I wouldn't actually. I would expect her to have no idea how to do it well and to be unsure of what "doing it well" even looked like, IF she recognized her own childhood as damaging which, given her fierce independence and low-key self loathing, isn't even a given

I love Jade, but wanting to be a good parent does not equal having the knowledge or skills or perspective to succeed.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, it's pretty common for children of neglectful/abusive parents to go on to become bad parents themselves because they often don't even realize how bad what was done to them was. They've normalized a lot of things that are absolutely not normal or healthy.

One of my friends grew up in an abusive household and it's taken her years of therapy just to realize how much it's affected her entire life and personality. It's not always immediately obvious.