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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-06-02 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #4897 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4897 ⌋

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[the promised neverland]


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[ojamajo doremi]


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Re: Should you give gay guys more of a pass for sexism than straight guys?

(Anonymous) 2020-06-03 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
As a gay dude, your friend's comments would piss me off. There are a lot of women in my life who are really important to me, and women I admire, and I hate being around misogynistic men. I don't mean to like, brag or whatever by saying that, because I think that's pretty normal (or should be), I just don't think being gay is an excuse for "not understanding women," and the idea that it's women's responsibility to teach men basic decency is so dumb.

IDK your friend, so IDK whether this is something he'd be receptive to listening to you about, and whether your relationship is overall positive, but IMO you're completely in the right to be bothered by the stuff he's been saying. You're not being homophobic or whatever by disliking misogyny no matter who it's coming from, and IMO it's actually pretty homophobic for people to act like gay men are inherently more misogynistic.