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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-06-13 02:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #4908 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4908 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread

[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2020-06-14 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
there's such a variety of life stages that happen in your 20s that I can def see most 27 year olds having far more requisite romantic and even cultural knowledge that leads to a power imbalance in a relationships with someone in their 20s. always? no. but when you have some knowledge of the difference in experience? yeah, its weird to me.

in general i wish people stopped believing that acknowledging someone's relative lack of experience was the same as calling them a baby.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2020-06-14 06:45 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT - the person I'm complaining about called the 20-year-old a child. Actually literally called her a child. And not in the sense of criticising childish behaviour.
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Re: Vent thread

[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2020-06-14 07:23 am (UTC)(link)
was the 20 yr old white? i mean as someone running out of their 20s left, yeah that's a kid to me. not kid as in "needs to be picked up and fed" but kid as in "barely without structural support to know what they're going to do without it" that's clearly not every 20 yr old, but its so many of them.