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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-06-13 02:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #4908 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4908 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2020-06-14 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmm, I can see it though. Twenty isn't nearly enough done with college, if that's the path they walked, and technically their brain isn't fully developed yet so it's probably safer for them to mingle with people their age. I get that treating them like a baby is a bit too much, but I do think it's a huge gap in that range, just like I feel a 12 year old dating a 14-15 year old is too much, and a 35 year old dating a 50 year old is probably too much as well.

Of course people see it differently but, personally ; I struggle a lot with it as a 27 year old with "childish" hobbies/fandoms so occasionally I am guilty of treating (4 years+ for instance?) younger people as kids, maybe even to remind myself that's what they are behind the computer screen or outwardly behavior - they're likely struggling with college (or pondering going into it) and part-time job money/allowance and love matters, while I'm struggling with a difficult but rewarding job, wondering whether to begin a masters and trying to get over past relationships and figuring out what I actually want. It's all so different from when I was 20 even if my personality (or even, perhaps, online behavior...) has not changed a lot.