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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-07-03 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #4928 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4928 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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04. https://i.imgur.com/D25cLFc.png
[Emma 2020, OP warned for male nudity (from the back)]


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[Star Wars Expanded Universe, resized]


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06. https://i.imgur.com/R7v6vL6.png
[365 Days, OP warned for image of a dub/non-con sexual situation]


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07. [SPOILERS for Far Cry 5 and Far Cry New Dawn]



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08. [SPOILERS for The Magnus Archives]



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09. [WARNING for sexual assault]



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10. [WARNING for discussion of transphobia]






















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(Anonymous) 2020-07-03 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a woman who's kinda completely indifferent to my gender. My circle of friends used to be all-female 10 years ago but most of them have come out as transmen or nb's since. I secretly had these thoughts like, are some of you suuuure you're just not having a misogyny and trying to cope by transitioning? You can be any kind of woman you want y'know?

But then I figured, if transitioning DID turn out to be a stupid mistake for them, that's not my problem at all and it's pointless for me to worry about it. So I ended up just distancing myself from the whole topic. It was never my business to begin with; I don't have to understand it in order to be cool with it. They're nice normal people no matter what labels they're putting on themselves.

(Anonymous) 2020-07-03 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
that's honestly a healthy way to look at it. whether you have doubts, whether they might someday have doubts, it doesn't matter so long as you're supporting them and making them comfortable right now.

I do see how internalized misogyny is doing a number on a lot of people and that really fucking sucks and needs to be addressed. but doing so in a healthy manner without implying everyone is trans-trendy or shitting on transmen in any sense is apparently too hard for us right now.

(Anonymous) 2020-07-03 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
DA internalized misogyny comes out in plenty of ways that have nothing to do with being trans, though. If we address it, we should address all of it.

(Anonymous) 2020-07-05 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I have these thoughts too sometimes. Doesn't help that one of my first experiences knowing a transman, they'd been abused by women to the point where they used to be slightly misogynist. On the other hand, I never question transwomen because they have to be serious if they're going to take not only the danger of being trans, but also being a woman. I think TERFS have something wrong with their brains if they think someone would go through all that just to be in a women's bathroom, which they could do easily without dressing up as a woman.
I don't identify with any gender so it's hard for me to understand why anyone cares about this stuff so much, but I don't have to understand. We're all different, with different things that matter to us, and I support anyone who is living their truth so long as it's not hurting anyone.