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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-07-30 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #4955 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4955 ⌋

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[Leverage]


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[Persona 4]


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[Daniel Sharman as The Weeping Monk - Cursed]


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[Gank Your Heart]


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[Honto Yajuu]


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[Avatar: The Last Airbender]























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(Anonymous) 2020-07-30 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
My take here is that there's no official rule that determines what label does or does not work for you in representing the underlying reality of your relationship with gender. And I don't think there's any problem with not having a definite answer to that question, or even not particularly caring about your gender identity.

For me personally, I kind of feel the same way, I'm definitely much more committed and connected to my sexual identity than my gender identity. But I've also found that much of what bothers me about gender is, not gender identity itself, but the hegemonic and shitty and alienating and totalizing assumptions that our society still manufactures about what gender is supposed to look like.