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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-07-30 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #4955 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4955 ⌋

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[Leverage]


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[Persona 4]


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[Daniel Sharman as The Weeping Monk - Cursed]


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[Gank Your Heart]


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[Honto Yajuu]


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[Avatar: The Last Airbender]























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(Anonymous) 2020-07-31 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
I mean... not being preoccupied with your gender or thinking/caring much about it is pretty much a hallmark of being cis. One of my trans friends told me that he first realized he was trans when another friend made an offhand comment that made him realize that the average person DOESN'T spend a lot of time thinking about their gender or how they present. As he said, when you're trans or otherwise non-cis, you think about it a lot and it affects you way more than it does someone who is cis.

(Anonymous) 2020-07-31 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't say it's not that I don't think about it? It's more I literally don't care how someone genders me. They can call me a dude, call me a chick, call me they/them, etc. The only time I find myself caring is anyone implying I'm straight. Imply I'm not cis? sure, I'm fine with that!

Does that make sense?
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[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2020-07-31 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
not being preoccupied with your gender or thinking/caring much about it is pretty much a hallmark of being cis

Knowing the history of feminists and LGBT folks and gender oppression in general, I don't think this is as true as it seems, unless you mean a specific type of occupation with gender.