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⌈ Secret Post #709 ⌋

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But it's still your kink, too. And you seem to be awful self righteous about how people shouldn't judge it, while you think it's perfectly all right to judge other people. It's bullshit to be unashamedly judgmental, and then state how other people shouldn't judge.

Basically: Pot. Kettle. Black.

Not particularly, I wouldn't particularly care if I was judged on it. Who knows how they'd manage it when no one even believes it exists even if it is shoved in someones face they'll always think it's the rape kink or use the catch-all term of sadism and never actually catch it.

I judge a person's intelligence and nothing else in case you haven't noticed.
Consider the intelligence of referring to someone as a male chauvinist pig right under the big ass sign saying they're female.
Consider the intelligence of a person saying some rape scene where a woman is crying will turn someone off forever on the post where they write some girl being vivisected and raped and emphasizing her thoughts on how she doesn't want to die.
Consider the intelligence of someone saying video games will turn everyone into rapists and murders.
Consider the intelligence of saying everyone who likes slasher films is a murderer.

Now, try /not/ to judge these people's intellects.
Making fun of someones kink is entirely different from judging them, under the ruling of make fun of others as much as you make fun of yourself.

Now, consider the difference between judging someone as an idiot and judging someone as an incestuous, paedophilic, rapist/murder.

Hell, I'm drunk and I'm thinking more than you are.

Bah. You keep adding things to your argument that you never mentioned before. Your defensive behavior only reinforces the idea that you take the misjudgment just as personal as your friends do. After all, I'd doubt someone who "doesn't care" as much as you claim would bother making a secret unless they in fact did care.

Here's the sweet and sour facts of life: People will judge you on anything and everything (Which I'm sure you'll state you already know. In which case, stop acting like a whining child about it.).

Bitch, moan, and complain all you want. Whine about their intellects (or lack thereof) until you're blue in the face, or drunk off your ass (which you claim to be). It won't stop them from judging everything you do.

That's human nature. It's a survival instinct. We judge people because, in a very primitive fashion, we're trying to figure out if that person is safe to be around. If they're someone we'd be comfortable being in proximity to.

Whether their judgment has a ring of truth in it or not, that is how just about everyone in the world is in some way, shape, or form.

Obviously, not all judgments are fair. Some of them are ridiculous. Thinking a person's kink corresponds to whether or not they're a good person is outlandish. Does it happen? Yes. Will it always happen? YES.

Suck it up, kid. Life's not fair.

You can't expect people to understand every aspect of you and your friends' lives. Especially when it involves something that, in mainstream society, is severely frowned upon. Especially since most of mainstream society is not into fandom, and therefore are even more out of the loop of such ideas. People judge your friends based on a kink that includes immoral acts. What a shock! You can't really expect most people to try to relate to it, can you? It's not exactly a fluffy bunny kink, and being bitter over people looking down upon it is a bit ridiculous.

I'm not denouncing your fetish. You like what you like, and I understand that it doesn't necessarily reflect on who you are as a person. But getting angry that people in general judge by what is considered by most a rather dubious kink is acting far too self-righteous.

Edited 2008-12-17 00:12 (UTC)

I care about my friends.

The peoples judgment of me is generally a delicious loli or the utterly batshit internet lurker with some of the most fucked up things out there -I accept these judgment because that is how I have chosen to be judged. I'm in a spot of social manipulation I can be anything I want people to think of me as. If I chose to be viewed as a furry I could make that so, if I chose to be viewed as a naive child I could make it so, I can be whatever I want a person to see me as and they don't know it.

Though honestly, I'm not bitter about people looking down on those kinks I am just bitter in general -misanthropy tends to do that.

My anger comes, always, from someone not doing the research. Not picking up on the most basic things of common sense. Human's will always single things out.
But what I have pointed out in the secret and multiple times in this conversation is the violence in tv and violence in video games arguments.

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