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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-08-25 07:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #4981 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4981 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-08-25 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Echoing others, you can think about, speculate privately, but bring it up to the person? That's just none of your business.

I like to think about it as "would you do this to your neighbor?". Might you consider the sexuality of your neighbor was attractive? Sure, in your head. Might you keep notice if your neighbor has a partner or something? Sure, maybe, to yourself. Might you go up to your neighbor, ask about their sexuality, their sex life in general? No. I'd like to think most people wouldn't, especially if they understood that's just social norms/courtesy/respect for a person's private life.

The cult of celebrity has somehow made people think they gave a right to be invasive in someone else's life. I really can't stand that shit.

(Anonymous) 2020-08-25 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

i've never liked how someone being a celebrity makes people think they can know every single tiny thing about them and tbh i think it's gotten so much worse with social media. people feel so entitled to strangers lives and it's so boggling to me. just let them exist.

(Anonymous) 2020-08-26 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
I often find myself thinking it's gotten a lot worse with social media, and probably in a lot of ways it has. But then I remember that fucking professional interviewers apparently thought it was okay to ask teenage Britney Spears whether she was a virgin, and I'm like, wow yeah it was always awful.

(Anonymous) 2020-08-26 02:24 pm (UTC)(link)
or interviewers asking lady gaga what her genitals are. absolutely wild

(Anonymous) 2020-08-26 02:28 pm (UTC)(link)
And there's a thing around Lady Gaga where she's frequently presumed straight in spite of her own statements to the contrary.