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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-08-25 07:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #4981 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4981 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-08-25 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
but, is there anything wrong with these so-called crumbs?

if I'm not going to see these people irl ever and I have sated my need for emotional reciprocity in all my other relationships, what's wrong with just having fandom acquaintences? what's wrong with just liking and commenting? is the emotional investment of a friendship that...necessary?

I mean I know I'm antisocial in general but I can't fathom needing to go to fandom to find emotional investment. if anything, 20 years of fandom has taught me not to ever rely on those flaky bastards.

(Anonymous) 2020-08-25 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Obviously, to OP there is. We all have different wants when it comes to social interaction.

(Anonymous) 2020-08-26 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
naturally. I ask these semi-rhetorical questions to let anyone who needs to re-evaluate themselves ponder what relationships mean to them and what they're getting - or not getting. who knows? even if it's not helpful it's worth asking oneself just to be sure.

(Anonymous) 2020-08-26 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
Do you really find great worth in being condescending and dismissive towards someone who has expressed their unhappiness at being lonely? How strange.