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⌈ Secret Post #713 ⌋

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[NEWS, Koyama]

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[Ojiichan wa Shounen Tantei]

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105. [repeat]

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[Stephen King's IT]

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[LJ, Fanfiction.net, y!gallery, devart]

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[FFXII]

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[Goof Troop]

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[Toradora!]

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[Heroes/The 4400]

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[The Submarines]

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[Merlin]

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[jesse lacey (brand new); chris conley (saves the day); andrew mcmahon (jack's mannequin/something corporate); max bemis (say/anything); anthony green (circa survive); craig owens (chiodos/cinematic sunrise)]

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[father of the pride]

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[Kuroshitsuji]

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[Katekyo Hitman Reborn, Dr Who, Pirates of the Caribbean]

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[Schindler's List]

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[Metal Gear Solid]

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[Prince of Tennis]

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[John Oliver]

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[Crossing Jordan]

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[madeline]

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[Gunnerkrigg Court]

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[FFVII Crisis Core]

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[Dr Who]

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[Emberverse]

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[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia]

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[Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory]

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[World of Warcraft]

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[Hey Arnold]

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[Kamen Rider Kiva / Dexter]

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[Monk]

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[Meat Loaf]

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[Video Girl Ai]

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[Ferris Bueller's Day Off]

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[Voice actors (Chris Patton, Crispin Freeman, Yuri Lowenthal, Johnny Yong Bosch, Jeff Nimoy, Travis Willingham, Quinton Flynn, Kyle Hebert, Jamie McGonnigal)]

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Hate to stick my nose into someone else's discussion, but I have to disagree with your belief that to be bisexual your attraction to men and women must be roughly equal. I am bisexual and I would say that I am attracted to men 75% and women 25%. I couldn't tell you if I just have higher standards for women or what, but that's how things are for me. It also seems to be pretty common with my bisexual friends as well, so the idea of it being an outlier seems off to me. I've dated and had sex with both genders, I can't say that I have a preference for one or the other, but I find myself attracted to women less frequently. No just one or two though. I'm consistently attracted to women of my "type" and even though it is less often than I'm attracted to men I am still bisexual.

There seem to be a lot of misconceptions, prejudices, and general dislike of bisexuality [I'm not saying you're prejudiced or anything] and I like to give my side of the story so people have more info to work with.

If it's an outlier then it wouldn't tally up to 25/75 at all though, would it?

I'm sort of sticking my foot in my mouth here, but it's quite possible that I need to examine my misconceptions and learn to shut up about it until I do. Right now I'm approaching it from the perspective that many people who are still otherwise straight or gay have crushes or attraction to people of the "wrong" sex for them, but that's not enough to make a person bi because if it was, then everyone would be bi and we would have no use for the word. Does that make sense?

I might not be clear on what you're saying. I took it to mean that you thought bisexuals who are not equally attracted to men and women are outliers. After this clarification I'm thinking you meant the people with the odd exceptions and such are? I'm a bit confused. I sort of get what you mean, but not totally. I also don't think you were like... mean or prejudiced etc, just not expressing yourself the best. I have terminal foot-in-mouth issues myself.

I see what you mean how we could have not use for the word, but I guess I look at sexuality in a very complex and layered way. More so than most. This is the basis of my theory, and it might help you figure things out in your own mind. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

I use a three part, seven point scale. You are anything from a 0 to a 6, in each category, like the kinsey scale. I'll use myself as an example.

asexuality 0 --|---- 6 hypersexuality [2]

heterosexuality 0 --|---- 6 homosexuality [2]

monogamous 0 -|----- 6 polyamorous [1]

It's still not perfect, but its better than some things.

I tend to be annoyed with both sides of the coin. The people who as they're bi after a single attraction to a fictional character with no other basis, and the people who won't admit that they possibly are even after a couple attractions. It's really subjective, so I usually just go with what people identify as, but its still so damn hard. *sigh*

Oh, I'm aware of the Kinsey scale and I agree with the basic premise (but will nitpick over methodology and statistics all day). What I did mean was that odd exceptions are... Like... I'm thinking about it like this:

The single point that is off the line doesn't change the pattern of the line.

I see more of what you mean. One, single attraction or experience doesn't change it over all. I still think that labels are pretty obsolete. *shrug* I get what you're saying now, I think.

I just think that labels on sexuality or anything else are useless. Pretty much only handy when trying to expplain.

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