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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-09-01 05:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #4988 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4988 ⌋

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Re: Curious.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-02 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Do I agree with those people or are they attractive to me? I'm not shallow enough to care about their opinions, but I'm also not running a charity here. I only date people I'm actually into.

Re: Curious.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-02 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
OP.
Can you find those types of people attractive? Have you ever actually been into someone that everyone thinks is too plain, or unattractive, or funny-looking?
I guess you look better than these types of people described, so you can make that "charity" wisecrack w/o remorse?...

Re: Curious.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-02 05:48 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt
this turned into an essay. idk

Lmao. Called out! Yes I am considered attractive by other people (I'd say average looking but the word attractive is the one they use so?), and the charity comment reflects that if I turn a guy down, people will call me shallow and tell me I need to give that person a chance because they're nice, funny, etc. I learned my lesson on that one because it's just awkward for everyone when you try to date someone you're not excited about. You know if there's a spark, you know?

I will say I don't have a type. I don't only like men of a certain height, body type, look, whatever. And yes, people also feel the need to share their opinions on how ugly, fat, weird, short, etc. the people I do like are. Literally every guy I've liked, including some that are widely considered attractive. People will still do this shit.

Example: Last guy I liked, I was interested because he's funny, charming, and straightforward about what he's after but never pushy. He's in incredibly good shape - I'm neutral on abs personally I do not care, but he looks like a fricking fitness calendar. Everyone else? EWWWW HE HAS RED HAIRRRRRR!!1111
Seriously?

People trip out over the silliest things and I have no idea what other people even consider attractive anymore because everyone I think of as hot is not to them?

I find bad attitudes unattractive. If someone doesn't do basic hygiene things or cheats on people, that is gross. But bald is not gross. It's just bald. Short is just short. They're not negatives they just are? And we're all going to look like saggy testicles in a few more decades anyhow.

It's been a slow day. I am willing to play would or would not if you have famous examples. Haha