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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-09-07 04:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #4994 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4994 ⌋

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OP

(Anonymous) 2020-09-08 08:28 am (UTC)(link)
Hi. I'm sorry that you've faced hardship and I understand this is why a lot of people crave lightness and sweetness; what I don't understand is why it's acceptable to declare that the only way anyone is allowed to work through depression or their own failings in life in a way that gives them healthy distance from it. Nothing about what I said in my secret invalidates your feelings or what you seek fiction for, but thank you for invalidating my own.

For what it's worth, I am a gay woman in the deep south who was raised under fanatical religion and very traumatized by it. I don't owe you that explanation for why I should be allowed to write realism in my relationships not always working out. I'm truly not intending to belittle your feelings but this is sort of exactly what I'm talking about when I say I think people paint with too broad of a "dark" brush onto anything that isn't perfect. Maybe it's me but I think ascribing "hopelessness" to an already rocky ship not getting a conventional happy ending with wedding bells etc is somewhat overstating things.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2020-09-08 08:58 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Sending you my love OP! <333