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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-09-19 04:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #5006 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5006 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-09-20 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
"Formerly ace" is not a thing, just like "formerly gay" isn't a thing. It's a sexuality, it doesn't just change. Maybe you realized you weren't actually asexual, but that's not the same thing as being asexual at one point and then just not being asexual anymore later.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-20 05:03 am (UTC)(link)
sexuality can and in many cases is fluid, and someone changing their labsls isnt necessarily indicative of them having never been that.

*it's not always fluid, but for a lot of people it is! just because thats not your personal experience doesn't mean it's a universal truth

(Anonymous) 2020-09-20 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

The whole "sexuality is fluid" concept has always bothered me because imo it's not too far of a stretch to "it can be changed" which eventually leads to it SHOULD be changed for non-straight people. And I've seen way too many "gay person is going to 'corrupt' a straight person and 'turn them gay'" and dumb straight guys bragging that they can turn a lesbian straight that the concept of sexuality being so easily changed just bothers me.

And I get changing labels, I have myself, it's the whole "former" thing that I have an issue with. I considered myself straight until the first time I had feelings for a woman, then I considered myself bi. I don't say "I used to be straight", I say "I used to think I was straight". Maybe it seems like a dumb distinction to make, but to me it's an important one. Idk, maybe I'm not making sense.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-20 07:20 am (UTC)(link)
How about you stop policing other people's sexuality, huh?