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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-09-25 05:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #5012 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5012 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Warhammer 40,000]


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06. [SPOILERS for Mulan (2020)]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of antisemitism]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of child molestation/sexual assault]



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09. [WARNING for discussion of sexual harassment]



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11. [WARNING for discussion of abuse]

[FAITH, The Council]




















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #717.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-26 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Not immeasurably at all. Antis self-id as such, and create an online presence around attacking fans who ship it. My quarterly bitching about stuff I hate doesn't make me an anti. Finding a single "I don't like reylo" post from last year doesn't make me an anti either.

I can criticize Holocaust porn as conceptually repugnant and practice ykinmk and block-and-move-on. See what I did there? I criticized a kink by addressing its expression without using a social media tool to identify a target for my followers to harass.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-26 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
+1

Saying "I don't like Reylo for X reasons" in your own personal internet space, and then just going on with your day and not bothering any Reylo shippers is CLASSIC YKINMK. The full acronym is YKINMKATO, which means "Your kink is not my kink and that's okay. It originated in the BDSM community. Something like, "ok I really don't like the idea of, say, fisting for me, but it's cool that you like it. Just don't involve me."

You don't have to like everything, and it's fine to say you don't like something. There is just a correspondingly strong position to leave the people who are doing that thing you don't like alone.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-26 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
SA

like, I don't like Reylo. Not for any "moral" objection, it just seems kind of obvious and boring to me. But one of my closest fandom friends DOES like it. It's so easy to just...live and let live? It would never occur to me to tell her, 'ehh not my thing" more than once. It makes me happy to see her squeeing over Reylo art, tbh. She's having a good time. I want my friends to have fun.

(Anonymous) 2020-09-26 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Here's another example, I think the Larry (Styles/Tomlinson) conspiracy theory is worthy of ridicule and has harmed the people involved. And now that I've done my once-a-year bitching about it, I can move on to squeeing about what I'm watching and reading this week.