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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-09-26 03:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #5013 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5013 ⌋

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Re: What Do You Feel Guilty About?

(Anonymous) 2020-09-27 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
I experienced similar things at home and was bullied pretty severely at school, and in retrospect, I feel really sympathetic towards most of my bullies. I don't necessarily want to talk to them again, or think we could be friends now, but I'm not angry with them the way I am at the adults who abused me, and I feel sad thinking about what might have been going on in their lives that made them pick up the behavior they did. I know I also acted in hurtful ways towards other kids myself sometimes and that it was absolutely because I was being abused, so it's hard for me not to be at least a little sympathetic even to kids who really hurt me.

Victims of bullying can feel really differently about whether an apology is appropriate— personally, I would hear it out, though again I don't know if I would want to talk much with bullies from my past. I hope this was somewhat helpful to read, anyway.