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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-10-02 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #5019 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5019 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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04. [SPOILERS for Mulan (2020)]



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05. [WARNING for discussion of transphobia]



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(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
Should there be strength tests for cis women before they're allowed in a shelter?

Otherwise, why is strength disqualifying for trans women and not cis women?

(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt
Because a man who doesn't do any sports easily overpowers a woman who doesn't know any self defence?
I don't feel afraid when I see a woman wnen I walk late at night, but I do when I see a man. Sorry to any guy who might read this.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
"because a man..."

good thing trans women aren't men then! glad we got that sorted :) haha was almost afraid you were saying trans women are men that'd be fucked up right? cause they're women and claiming otherwise is transphobic as fuck?

oh, wait...

(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 04:20 am (UTC)(link)
Transwomen are women in gender, but not sex. Not biologically. Not at a glance. Not when you're afraid.

They're women in everything but that, and unless the transition is far along, and they're lucky, you can still tell at a glance that they have male anatomy, because we're hardwired that way. Humans have sexual dimorphism.

Transwomen still have the strength and silhouette of men, which, like it or not, is still frightening to plenty of abuse survivors and women in general.

It isn't transphobic to point that out.

Likewise, transmen aren't suddenly big brave fellas. I'm tiny. I'll never not be scared of cismen and as much as I feel for them, transwomen can look at a glance like cismen, just like I'm going to get mistaken for a girl forever because of my build, height, facial features.

So stop being an obtuse dipshit.

-sincerely, a transperson.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 06:17 am (UTC)(link)
This.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT
Perhaps this isn't my lane, but there are big cis women and small cis men, too. I'm a big cis woman who sometimes gets misgendered at a glance. There are definitely transwomen out there daintier than I, because there are cis men out there daintier than I. The idea that transwomen are categorically too big and intimidating to be in spaces where I would still be allowed seems illogical to me.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 08:05 am (UTC)(link)
*applauds* What there should be, is better facilities for trans people fleeing violence.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 03:39 pm (UTC)(link)
My wife is 5'10" (used to be 6' but she has degenerative disc disease) and 300+ lbs and built like a fucking brick house, is flat-chested and broad-shouldered. Her ~silhouette~ is ~that of a man~.

You'd probably think she's a man because of your stupid shitty stereotypes. Congrats, your transphobic asshole rhetoric hurts cis women.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-04 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
So she should not follow anyone in the dark, same as men. Simply as that.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-03 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
"At a glance" Oh so we're master clockers now.