[ SECRFET POST #5023 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5023 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

A lot of slash writers are women I find, and anal works a lot different for guys than it does for girls. I agree that a lot of it is inaccurate though.

[(Anonymous)]

Wait, now I want to know... How is anal much different for guys than for girls?

[(Anonymous)]

Lack of prostate is the big one.

[(Anonymous)]

Okay. By 'works', I thought you meant something else.

[(Anonymous)]

different anon but it seems like guys just have a way easier time with sticking large items up their butts without discomfort. it's like their muscles are a lot looser back there. i trained in xray and saw an image of a dude who lost a jam jar up his butt. pretty sure all the cases i saw of patients sticking things up their butts were all male.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I also imagine a lot of that is explained by the fact that guys love to just see what kind of random, stupid shit they can do or put somewhere or something :p.

But wow. A jam jar? I want to ask why/how...and yet...maybe it's better I don't.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I mean..."All cases of things-stuck-in-butt were male" really implies that men do stupid shit with their butt much more frequently than women do and/or that they're bad at it, not that it's easier for them!

[(Anonymous)]

Straight women do yoga, straight guys furtively stick stuff up their butts and claim they tripped in the kitchen.

[(Anonymous)]

Even in spite of growing visibility of pegging, anal = gay = deserving of shame. Unfortunately a lot of pegging porn explicitly reinforces those messages. Which creates a situation where a lot of guys do unhealthy things with their butts without instruction or butt-literacy because they're paranoid of being clocked as a sissy, if not fully gay.

[(Anonymous)]

Gee, thanks for explaining that. Never would have thought there might be societal reasons for why guys do stupid shit with their butts, don't know how to do it right, and so end up in the hospital more often than women. Gosh.

I'm not the one claiming "guys just have a way easier time with sticking large items up their butts without discomfort", though, so you'd probably be better off taking your educational insights elsewhere.

[(Anonymous)]

Not every response is an argument, much less a personal attack.

[(Anonymous)]

If you can explain how the previous comment sensibly and naturally followed the comment it's replying to, then we can talk.

[(Anonymous)]

It explores why guys are more likely to do stupid things with their butts.

[(Anonymous)]

And...? Did the comment suggest why anyone might be confused about that? Except, perhaps, the original commenter and not the one you chose to reply to?

[(Anonymous)]

My apologies, I honestly did not intend to start or continue an argument over how homophobia leads to high-risk sex. It's just an issue that directly relates to me as an AMAB person who has to deal with that kind of internalized homophobia.

[(Anonymous)]

different anon but it seems like guys just have a way easier time with sticking large items up their butts without discomfort. it's like their muscles are a lot looser back there.

This seems like it's probably just a person-specific thing. I'm female, and the first time I tried using my average sized vibrator anally, I did no prep at all and there was zero pain. I wasn't even aroused at the time, I was just like, "Hmm, I wonder..." so I tried it and it went right in. (Compared to vaginal penetration which was very much the opposite experience for me.)

OTOH, John Krokidas, the gay director of Kill Your Darlings, claimed he'd never seen someone's first time having gay sex portrayed accurately on film before, and instructed Daniel Radcliffe to act as though it was really painful.

https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/daniel-radciffe-talks-about-gay-sex-being-painful-especially-first-time151013/

So yeah, it seems to me like it can be difficult for men and easy for women just as much as it can be easy for men and difficult for women.

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, to all of these replies!

The prostate is a huge deal with anal sex. Woman cannot replicate the basic arousal felt about such things even experiencing anal themselves. Also certain men can feel arousal by way of they prostate with simple teasing of the asshole, which can ease the muscles to allow an easier entrance/produce its own stimulation as foreplay.
More or less the difference is from person to person. A fic can have one enter with simply spit as lube and with little to no prep, so long as it's being eased in and waiting as the other person adjusts, so long as they are relaxed/wanting.

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Women might not have the prostate, but they can also feel arousal from the teasing of the asshole, and the internal part of the clitoris does reach all the way back, making anal orgasms a possibility for women. I don't like how these kind of threads always imply that women can't understand anal, because it could never feel good for them.

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

The prostate is a collection of nerves that acts as a mans G-Spot. You can milk a prostate, you can't milk a woman's posterior nerve endings in the same way.

Personally I get no sexual pleasure through vaginal sex, the best I can manage is through anal. But that doesn't mean I know what having a prostate feels like. Everyone is different, but by definition of biology a woman cannot replicate the experience of anal sex with their own body as it would be experienced by man. It's just the facts.