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fandomsecrets2020-10-18 02:41 pm
[ SECRET POST #5035 ]
⌈ Secret Post #5035 ⌋
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[anna and the apocalypse]
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(Anonymous) 2020-10-19 01:51 am (UTC)(link)I think the reason it stokes my dislike of her so much is because it plays into what I dislike about her as a person. She's this person who blindly neglects to edit or tailor herself at all, and seems on some underlying level to view that as a personal virtue. She seems to think she should be accepted and valued exactly as she is, warts and all, regardless of whether she actually has any real merits.
The way she's styled plays into that. Her clothes are drab and ill-fitting and unflattering and rumpled, and yet often a little bit attention-getting at the same time, like they're saying, "Hey! Hey! Look at this slumping, unkempt person. Isn't she brave and authentic for choosing to emphasize how unattractive she is, rather than catering to society like most people?"
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(Anonymous) 2020-10-19 07:51 am (UTC)(link)A show catering to that deluded notion is exactly why I couldn't even get past the second episode.
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(Anonymous) 2020-10-19 02:12 am (UTC)(link)Though in my defense, I would never, ever hate a character specifically because they were ugly.
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(Anonymous) 2020-10-19 02:20 am (UTC)(link)Unless we're talking about sexual prospects, nobody has any business valuing you or judging you based on how attractive they find you, and I'm sorry your personal appearance got brought into this.
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(Anonymous) 2020-10-19 08:12 am (UTC)(link)There's a difference between someone who purposefully makes themselves look terrible as a point to 'scorn society and their views' without saying anything about it in the process, and still have the gall to pat themselves on the back. All because they went out in public in a deluded preconception that making themselves look the worst they can proves something to someone or another.
'The better you look, the better you feel' is not an unfounded notion. Self perception will always be your harshest critic... but every head has a shape, every body a size, every individual a style. You don't need to conform to societies standards of beauty, you just need to discover what works for you. Garner your confidence and your beauty in conveying that, not on society.
The point is your attitude. If you go out of your way to make yourself as unappealing as you can, well, that's on you. But if you wear what you have, exist as you do, and don't put barring on how you present effects your day to day life, you're good.
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(Anonymous) 2020-10-18 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)And Hannah being a self-entitled, self-involved, miserable, whiny mess 24/7 is what makes her unworthy of being listened to most of the time.
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(Anonymous) 2020-10-19 01:08 am (UTC)(link)However, she does make it kind of impossible to like her, even if for some reason one WANTS to like her.
I get the impression that honesty of self expression and not editing oneself is her highest value. I suspect she views it as a profound and virtuous human act to speak ones truth, warts and all. And in certain settings, at certain times, it can be a positive, constructive thing to do. But she kind of does it all that time, which just comes across as tone deaf and self-involved to a degree most people find repulsive.
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