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fandomsecrets2020-10-19 06:13 pm
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(Anonymous) 2020-10-20 03:51 am (UTC)(link)If it helps at all, I spent a very long time believing penetration of any sort was just not in the cards for me (like, I never learned how to use a tampon because when I first tried it hurt too much. I couldn't get a proper vaginal exam either time I went to the doctor for one because no matter how much lube they used or how small a speculum they were using it just hurt too much for me to handle it).
Anyway, I only masturbated with external stimulation for most of my life. It's actually only in the past few months (I'm in my 30s) that I was able to successfully use a toy internally and it took lots of time and taking it slow. And by time I mean multiple long sessions of just spending a while playing around and then just using a rather small 'egg' style toy and gently using it as far as was comfortable (which wasn't very much at all) and trying not to focus on a 'goal' of full penetration, just playing around. I am using a somewhat larger (mostly just longer) toy now and I've found I enjoy using it.
So anyway, my point is that it's possible to slowly convince your body that having something inside there isn't a threat it has to prevent from entering at all costs. But every body is different and it's okay if yours doesn't want to play along. There's lots of ways to enjoy oneself (and others) without penetration being a thing.