ext_33427 ([identity profile] degrees.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-03-16 01:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #070 ]


⌈ Secret Post #070 ⌋

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Early because I may not be back in time otherwise :D

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[identity profile] grayout.livejournal.com 2007-03-17 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
They want to be helpless and worried over and need to know for sure'n have like concrete evidence that people care about them or something so they turn themselves into victims and make stuff up to be victimized by even if nothing exists 'cause they're insecure? :D

/random psychobabble stuff

I think in certain instances a healthy dose of like, egoism is good, 'cause if you're all "what you mean my friends don't care, of COURSE they care, how could they not" then... huge load off everybody's backs. *dies*
hughes: (26;)

[personal profile] hughes 2007-03-17 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
They want to be helpless and worried over and need to know for sure'n have like concrete evidence that people care about them or something so they turn themselves into victims and make stuff up to be victimized by even if nothing exists 'cause they're insecure? :D

That sounds about right. =_= Of course, all they do in the end is hurt other people.

[identity profile] lostremnant.livejournal.com 2007-03-17 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
Man this sounds like someone who frequented a gamer's forum that I was part of a few years ago and who told a bunch of pitable stories about herself that we later found were lies.

Then a supposed rl friend posted that this girl had committed suicide. We were a close knit gaming group at the time and the whole community was just stunned. Several people felt incredible guilt, posting how they felt they should have been able to prevent it.

You probably can see where this is going. Yep, the "real life friend" who had posted the suicide news was the same girl with a different account. She had faked her own suicide and then had sat back and read all the grieving posts about her.

There are some really sick people out there.

[identity profile] klytaemnestra.livejournal.com 2007-03-17 04:42 am (UTC)(link)

People need help.

Everyone's looking for someone to 'care' about them, and really if you're honest someone out there will come to care about you. Had she been an honest friend I wouldn't have not cared about her, but I suppose she just needed something more to solidify it. I was always wanting to protect her from something because she was so very young when I first met her. And really, she was completely brainwashing me with her crap. When she mentioned me in her journal I got isanely happy and flattered and loved. And when she didn't I'd emo over it.

She did a real number on me for about six months and then was a presence in my life for years after. And I know she did the exact same thing to others and it makes me sick because I didn't spot it early on. I didn't jerk her around and tell her to stop with her whining and DO something to help herself.

And she's probably doing it to someone else now. All of us got tired of her shit, we grew up, moved on, saw between the lies. And some poor kid's getting the same treatment now in all likelihood. x_x