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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-11-04 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #5052 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5052 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-11-05 11:11 am (UTC)(link)
It's almost like different gay men have different opinions on the matter and it's not up to fandom to decide what's "woke" or not for them.

(Anonymous) 2020-11-05 02:51 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT: +100 There's a big difference between being gay/bi and claiming those roles, vs. how those roles are the basis for a lot of real-world homophobic and gender-policing abuse. And that includes how often anal sex is framed in terms of humiliation play. So I'd be a lot less suspicious of straight people getting off on gay sex if it wasn't for their peers openly saying that gay sex feminizes me to a degree that I deserve abuse for it.

And there are some pretty complex discussions about sex and gender from gay/bi men who point out and call out bottom stereotypes and bottom-shaming.